Note: this is part 2. You may want to check out Part 1 if you haven’t yet.

Enjoy part 2 of our interview with MaryEllen. She continues to describe the benefits of a natural plant-based diet, her enjoyment of cooking and teaching others to cook in this style, and her general appreciation for the plant-based community that’s been such a big help in her journey towards recovered health. If you haven’t yet, check out part 1 from last week. We enjoyed our time with MaryEllen and learned so much from her, and we think you will too.

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yeah but he he knew he's going to reap the benefits eventually right yeah you reap the benefits the whole time because

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you have to practice a lot of recipes you want to know how uh important cooking is to Mary Ellen she knew that

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coming to our house to stay it's like I don't want to be picky Chris I don't want to you know have these so if you

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don't mind I'll just cook all of our me while you're we there how's that it's good it's good yeah I mean we've shared

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in the cooking but yeah yeah I mean no Chris has done her part of course I mean by how's that gone I I more mean how's

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taste welcome to how I see it with me Mark Pratt and J Sternberg this is a

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podcast that works to countercultural polarization through thoughtful

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conversations all right we're back from our break yes indeed So speaking along

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the lines of what your husband went through um is it fair to say that the

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whole food plant-based lifestyle has become a passion for you based on what you've experience yes a mission to share

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yeah yeah how do you share

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yeah so a lot of it is just um you know at first I was sharing my journey and I

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got questions yeah so I mean within a few months of our transition I had

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several other friends that also went that direction and started to transform their health as well MH um as things

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went along I decided to try a um and because I would get a lot of questions on cooking so I loved cook and this

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spring I actually completed culinary school plant-based culinary school which was a lifelong dream for me it was a lot

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of fun that's awes and my husband suffered through all of it yeah but he he knew he was going to

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reap the benefits eventually right you reap the benefits the whole time because you have to practice a lot of recipes

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you want to know how uh important cooking is to Mary Ellen she knew that

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coming to our house to stay it's like I don't want be picky Chris I don't want to you know have these so if you don't

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mind I'll just cook all of our meals while you're we're there that it's good it's good yeah I mean we've shared in

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the cooking but yeah yeah I mean no Chris has done her part of course and I mean by how gone I'm moreing how's it

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taste I would like to try yeah I mean we what were the I I call them the Buffalo

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bean burgers but they're the black bean burgers they were a black bean burger because they kind of orange so I kind of

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you know buffalo style you know like but um yeah they were very good oatmeal corn

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black bean it was it was good yeah and so yeah it's like I think it's is it

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fair to say that there hasn't been any you haven't felt any resistance not from my husband at all no well even from in

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our household is what I'm I have and I appreciate that um yeah we can get into a little bit of the obstacles here cuz

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that's definitely something I think it's worth talking about but I'm trying to remember what your original question was

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I don't know either it had to do with people you know as you're oh how did I share so you um yeah so the next step

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for me was a little over a year ago because I was getting a lot of questions um and I'm not a great I don't I'm not a

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huge fan of using a lot of social media I'm a very in person and so people started to get a little more comfortable

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with being together you know a year ago so I I just thought I'm going to try and

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see if I can just put together a little cooking class so I just put it out on Facebook and I said would anybody be

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interested and there was quite a few so every 3 or 4 weeks I was um for the last

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year I've done a cooking class in my home and it's been very informal but um

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people have really come to love it so I you know I put together usually it's a theme based so we might do like

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breakfast and I have recipes all printed out for everybody and some of it is

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actual cooking the food in front of them and some of it I already have some other the things made and so there's a lot of

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sampling and in that questions and answers whatever people so it's just

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it's a handson approach to teaching and um I've also done some of those in the

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community as well I was asked by another nonprofit locally if I would come in and do them in their Community um and that

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was the first time teaching to strangers people I didn't know and that was a lot of fun as well and um and now I'm taking

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that the next step I just started last night actually um working with a an

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organization called Physicians committee for responsible medicine and I'm being educated um for to be a food for Life

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educator and it's a lure program and so you teach um disease reversal and also

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just lifestyle medicine in the community and so I'm super excited to be a part of

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that program so that'll that'll expand um the the people that I can work

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with and also have the credentials to go with it so nice so cool y yeah I know and Mary Beth was on here I was trying

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to get it is there a podcast or a Blog Soh yeah there's a lot of them out there for PL the plant-based Community I mean

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that was honestly uh my lifeline yeah yeah so as you've embarked in this

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journey can you speak to some of the obstacles that you faced in in such a way that might help others right and I

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would say my obstacles maybe some On's but I think other people have different ones as well cuz we all have our own

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Journey for me the actual transition and the cooking part was not an obstacle for

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me but it is for a lot of people I just had to equip myself um and if anybody wants to go down that direction there is

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quite a few um YouTubers and bloggers that put out wonderful recipes and

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inspiring videos and things that really help you you know I never thought I'd be

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watching somebody's what I eat in a day videos but they have been very helpful because a lot of it is just just getting

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your head around what does it look like on your plate mhm so you know in the beginning I was like you know you remove

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the chicken what are you putting there and so I was always trying to add a protein come back to that onto my plate

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where now I'm just learning there are a lot of things that we eat that are plant-based all the time we don't think about you know beans and rice or a chili

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or a curry you know there's a lot of things why don't we eat is just the it's the flavor of what we're doing so if

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someone is moving that direction wants to just explore it there are and there's

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there's bloggers and YouTubers that are in books that are geared towards certain

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ethnic groups as well as far as the types of cooking um and I've done a

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little bit of all of it and it's been it's delicious there's nothing you're missing along the

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way so um I would say for for me for us my husband and I the biggest obstacle

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has been the social piece of it um people do not understand our society

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isn't supportive of it as far as even restaurants and things so there are some areas of the country that you would find

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more places to go um California or yeah and some like around DC the cities you

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kind to have more and even now like here we were looking at you know even so you

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can find maybe vegan food but it's not necessarily healthy um and I'm not so

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strict that I won't occasion um eat out and eat something that is so

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the other component of a whole food plant-based diet I should specify is no oil which is a completely different

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thing for most people it's no oil and there's some people that use so there's no it's no processed things so oil is a

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processed food um there are um some people that do include um some olive oil

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in their diet but in general most people are oilf free and a lot of people also

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go saltree as well um I we just lost Justin not hungry anymore so it's again

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it depends on what you're doing it for too right I mean salt is sodium in our diet is a huge part of people's Health

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decline as well and but usually it's in the processed food because there's so much sodium in it so it's additional

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sodium or all sodium would you say we we need some sodium okay but sodium is in food celery all sorts of foods have

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sodium in them but it's the it's all the additives of and you know even if you're

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not eating out and not eating processed food and you're adding salt from a salt shaker you're going to not get it's not

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going to be too much it's when we buy you know you think you know one takeout

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meal has more sodium than you should eat in a day and a lot of people are eating takeout two and three times a day um so

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I I think we need to stop and look at what we're eating you know but to that the the society does not is not real

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support of the infrastructure for a plant-based diet as far as eating out and eating other people social things

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that has been the hardest some of it has been with family to be honest um the

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first Thanksgiving was the pandemic and we didn't get together with everybody so that wasn't an issue but wow the second

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one boy it was difficult not for me I

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was fine with eating my other things that I made um you can still eat mashed potato es and there's a lot of great

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things you just make them differently sure um and the food is still delicious but it's different and we have tradition

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so um my mom had a really hard time you know why are not only was I not eating

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the food I um I wasn't making it anymore um so part of that Journey for me has

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been not doing that um I food is a communication of love for a lot of

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people including myself so um I've fed people given people food

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made baked for people for most of my life as gifts and a you know a form of

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nurturing and I had to really shift what that looked like because for me it's not

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loving to give somebody something that's not healthy for them so you know if

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someone has diabetes you don't GI them fudge you know I mean it's just not loving in my mind um even if it's their

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favorite thing it's not it's not beneficial to their health well so

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that's my personal I mean it's not that different from other addictions

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absolutely absolutely and I think if someone really likes weed you probably shouldn't just give it to them as a gift

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would be my gift or whatever your addiction Cho is alcohol like they're an alcoholic they're in recovery you know

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what I brought you a six-pack as a gift because I know how much you love it but I will tell you that is not how it's

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looked at so it is an addiction um but it's not supported in our society so I

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want us to think about that for a minute if we are say someone is was is a recovering alcoholic would you be like

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oh come on man just have a beer like well you'd be surpris I do know what happens but is that loving like a true

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friend would not do that but you know someone that has ripped off that

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Band-Aid they've transitioned they've turned their health around with a plant-based diet and they're in a social C and people guilt them but I made you

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this cake and how can you not eat it and it's it's it's very real and the pressure is real and I know so many

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people that do not stay true to what they're doing because of the social pressures it was helpful that my husband

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is plant-based that is huge um I am a very disciplined person when it comes to

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just because I've had to be in order to get better and that would not have changed what I was doing in my home but

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it would have made it more difficult sure and it would have made it more difficult when we were going out it's nice that we're on the same page yeah so

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I have to think ahead plan ahead and that was part of my conversation um with

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Chris and Mark um I I talked to Chris ahead of time because I don't want to offend people yeah I don't want to

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offend people I've realized that it's it runs very deep for people and they can be offended and so I just wanted to say

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like I don't want to offend you um but is it okay if I do my own cooking or you

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know because I understand it's it's people also don't want to bend over backwards to try to figure it out it it

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seems complicated it doesn't have to be but um it it's different it's different and I I appreciate what you share in

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that uh you can communicate Love by cooking for people and I think so often we

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misunderstand as of our love of food right there's a big difference between

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loving food and communicating Love by cooking for others and I think you know

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I appreciate that Dynamic and that aspect of the communication you shared because you wanted to convey a love and

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say hey we respect that we're different and yet there's a desire to love and

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care for and you know and to avoid that defensiveness if you will that can go

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along with yeah well what are we doing we love this food you know what makes

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that wrong for you and I think that's that's what you know you you battle or

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you know part of that obstacle is that misunderstanding if you will and it's been a real eye opener to be honest with

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you because we where are [Music]

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our priorities as a culture M and also how we treat others in this and you know

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even as a as a Christian woman um you know I how often if we you

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know we've heard we've been told and we know we need to care for our temples we need to take care of our bodies right

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and I think most people want to do that we want to be feeling well and and able

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to live our life to the fullest and but if we're given the tools and the

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wisdom when we choose to not do that um you know I just love my bacon I couldn't

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do that so I'm just going to die of heart disease it's what are we saying in

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that and I think you know that's it's going to stuck on some people's toes but yeah in this

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room but I I just you know we really have to if we love we love that food

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over our quality of life so people will say it's so hard I'm like so is being

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sick being sick is hard diabetes is hard heart disease is hard Lyme disease is

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hard being sick is really difficult it does it affects every every single

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aspect of your life so yes eating plant-based affects every aspect of our

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lives so when we go places we pack food everywhere we rarely eat out at

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restaurants because there's not much availability where we live um when we go

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to people's houses it can be a little awkward um people don't necessarily want to host us for dinner always because

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they don't know what to make and so I've had to learn to be proactive and have conversations and be gracious and

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understanding of that cuz food is such a big it is social component uh of Our

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Lives I mean it is in fact maybe the biggest in terms of social yeah

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interactions possibly religion yeah Gathering underneath that yeah I would

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say and yeah and you don't have to give any of that up it's just different it's just different you know I mean you don't

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have the turkey on the Thanksgiving table but it's still Thanksgiving like

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can we give thanks Thanksgiving this is a a broader

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conversation that ties into uh tradition which I think is worth having as well but just how we we replac the original

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thing with the tradition and say this is the original thing or you know we kind of Thanksgiving is this turkey it's like

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wait a second remember what the word is it's about thanks it's about giving thanks or Thanksgiving is about Black Friday and shopping you know yes we've

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absolutely and so this has been a deep Journey it it hasn't it's it's only

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started with the food yeah and then it's caused a lot of uh deeper thinking on my

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part and and also in that is the direction of you know the other pieces

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that come into that because once you're in the plant-based world there's the discussion of the environment and animal

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welfare and all of those things and it just opens up all of these this awareness and once you have awareness of

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things you can't put that awareness away you know it yeah and um I just see the world differently now than I did three

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years ago and I'm thankful for that but it also makes it hard there's a tension in that because it's hard for me to

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watch somebody that is O suffering they're overweight they don't feel well

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and yeah there they are filling their plate with all these unhealthy things that are just it's just fuel to that

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illness and not insert myself in that

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I'm I'm thinking I'm not this isn't a defensive statement or anything but I'm thinking about you know as we mentioned

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you know antibiotics and animals I'm I'm going to that other end of the spectrum is saying you know pesticides and foods

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and you know typically foods are you know uh the the three chemicals in in

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fertilizer what is it poast and you know sodium and phosphate you know that kind

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of you know that we can give we can give plants just those three things and they

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don't necessarily have the nutrient broadness that we're look how do you

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personally kind of overcome that to where you're not just you know consuming

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food that's deplete of the rest of the nutrients that our bodies actually need

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help me understand that from your perspective so I'll just let me just

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spell a few myths sure go for it okay so one of the things that comes out there is that their um plants are not complete

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amino acid profile okay so when people say Well they're not complete proteins that is a myth okay plants all have

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every plant has every amino acid in it is an absolute myth um plants also contain protein

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gotcha and it it doesn't even have to be intentional you don't have to be like I need to eat three cups of beans a day um

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it is all plants have protein in them gotcha um oatmeal has as much protein as

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eggs broccoli has protein in it sure um and they also have most of the things

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that animals get from plants so animals get their sources from Plants sure so

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one of the things people say is we're you know like Omega-3s and so they get with a fish oil

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right well fish get it from the algae so go to the source so part of the whole

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food plant-based diet is go to the source go to the source of things and so

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a plant-based diet there is any any diet can have its deficiency right so one of

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the things I will say up front is B12 B12 is deficient in a vegan diet a lot

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of omnivores also are missing B12 but B12 comes from the soil bacteria in the

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soil which then gets eaten by the animals which then you get from them but our soil is too clean now so we don't

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get it from the soil so you have to supplement with B12 and most people need Vitamin D but that has nothing to do

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with a plant-based diet that's just um people get it from their milk sure

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because it's added to the milk correct M so there are some plant-based milk Alternatives that have it added but most

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people just choose to supplement other than that a plant-based diet a well-rounded one has everything that you

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need even if you don't eat a drop of it organic got so a traditional

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grown plant-based diet will have all that you need and it's better and healthier for you than a standard

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American diet by far but it's not good you know there are

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the issues of other things that come into play and obviously if you can purchase organic and be more strategic

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and how you're doing things by local all of those things play a role and they certainly play a role in my situation I

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was you know eating a lot of dark leafy greens and I did make sure they were organic because I wasn't going to trade

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one thing off for another and there are a lot of pesticides on our foods and I

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um I I'm very intentional about certain foods that I buy only organic um such if

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possible such so I use the um environmental workings group dirty dozen

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list and on that list on the top every time is strawberries okay they are right

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up there and that is one thing I do not they have like over 40 different chemicals on standard grown strawberries

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they are it's I know um so there's you know one you know

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there's a lot of myths out there another big thing that I hear is it's too expensive mhm and um that is not true um

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and overall a a plant-based diet is 20% less expensive than a standard diet but

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it depends on what you're eating MH and that's true of a regular diet right I mean are you

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buying blueberries that are out of season in the little tiny carton or are you buying them Frozen you know how are

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you how what are you buying and um it that's you know beans are very

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inexpensive as well as a lot of the grains and potatoes I mean these are things that cultures what oatmeal is cheap oatmeal

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is very inexpensive the cultures the cultures in the world that are most plant-based are also the poorest

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cultures in the world so most most most things in a plant-based diet are I mean there's

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certain vegetables absolutely and and the more fresh produce you're buying out a season the more expensive it's going

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to be but frozen vegetables frozen fruit grains beans all those things are um

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definitely less expensive than cheese and meat overall yeah so you can

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definitely do it on a budget so you see that for the for you and your husband you see this as being longterm this is

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going to be a there's no turning back we we have no intention of ever um um going

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off of a plant-based diet it will be the way we live for the rest of our lives and um I I speaking to just the future

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of of our culture it's going to be moving that way because People's Health

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is we're going to get to a Tipping Point and um a plant-based diet is

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the answer to most health issues um 80%

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% of chronic disease can be completely eliminated on a plant-based diet just

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gone it wouldn't exist which is a good portion of the deaths in the US like so

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you you made the Bold claim and we're going to reach a Tipping Point what what

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in your mind would trigger that and and what would trigger that and what would

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the result look like as a result of that Ty being yeah so I honestly there's

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going to be two things it's either going to be people's personal health um just

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taking a you know right now this generation us we're going to die at a

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younger age than the last well isn't that what we just heard this week that the first and I'm trying to remember

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this will be the first we're going backwards despite all of our modern things because

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we do the damage we can't undo the damage the second what was the the the

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fat the the statistic is this is the first time that the longevity

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is lower than it was previously uh the but what's the EXA life expectancy thank

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you man like what are the words I need the words my brain won't move on until I

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sorry that's absolutely and so the longest living people in the world are

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if not exclusively plant-based they are primarily plant-based there's been studies the Blues zones um are the

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longest living people in the world and they're they may eat very small amounts

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of um seafood or uh a little bit of cheese here and there but it's it's

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little um in America we eat 200 220 pounds of meat A year per person 55 PBS

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of cheese that's not even Seafood um the average American eats at

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least 40% if not 60% of processed food in their diet um less than 10% plants

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and the majority of that is potatoes made into French fries process so something's going to

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have to change the other piece of this that most people are completely unaware of is the environmental impact um that

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animal agriculture has had and we are not 100 200 years from not being able to

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live on this planet we are 40 or 50 years from not being able to survive as

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we are on this planet if we do not make changes because animal agriculture is killing our soil and emitting a lot of

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greenhouse gas I am not saying that every single person needs to go vegan we

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do need to shift you know we need to shift away from all 220 pounds of meat A

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year like we just our our lifestyle cannot our planet cannot sustain it and the sad thing is that if we went

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plant-based we could feed the whole world yeah because there would be enough

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food yeah and to to grow uh to grow what's needed to feed the world requires

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a lot less footprint yes requ so the environmental footprint of a hamburger

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versus um a bean burger is is huge and I I really encourage people to look into

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it because you know we we are aware oh take a shorter shower or you know turn

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off your lights um we're all about getting a Tesla and driving this electric car or whatever but we do we

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think about what we're putting on our plate and the biggest thing that we can do to reduce our environmental footprint

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is to take animals off our plates they they the environmental

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footprint of beef and dairy is so huge and um

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I I think we just need to think think about it so that Tipping Point is that

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and I hope and pray that we have an Awakening before there's just some things that

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just take so long I mean just think about my health you know what if I had

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done this 10 years ago so it's take it our planet is the

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same way like restoring what we've done and the Damage we've done um there is a Tipping Point and so I'm very encouraged

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by the the youth and their desire to make changes for the planet I just hope

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the truth comes out and right now a lot of it is being hidden by follow the money Trail there is no big

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broccoli but there is a dairy Council and a poultry Council and a beef

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Council and but there is no big broccoli so there's no agenda in the plant-based movement especially the whole food

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plant-based movement because we're not selling anything health health is what but

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there's no there's no there's there's because anything that's sold has to have

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someone backing behind it you know you can grow your own food MH a lot of people can anyhow oh doubt

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but yeah based on this conversation as with other guests that have just a

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wealth of information I'd love to get a list of resources from you uh a few of the things that stand out as like uh

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like food resources you mention uh food bloggers and or even some videos where they talk about great documentaries out

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there one of them I can list right off the top that you two would probably both enjoy um is on not to give Netflix any

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more business but Netflix has a documentary um called The Game Changers and it's been their number one

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documentary ever watched and it's very entertaining as well nice so but there's

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a lot of free things on um YouTube as well Fork silver knives is on there that one um in my meeting last night probably

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half the people discovered a plant-based diet through Forks silver knives so yeah and I I just want people

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to know that um there is there is hope and change can be hard but it's worth it

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sure yeah so you know I think there's there's a lot of people suffering with

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health issues and um there are answers

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yeah and as with anything like this it it's difficult to get started and it the

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best thing that you can do is find some resources find some um support you know

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what I mean support that's huge and I will say one thing I love about the plant-based Community is there's a lot

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of free resources there's a lot of free support there is you know free Kickstart

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programs um and a lot of free resources out there um so I will definitely be

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glad to provide those to you cool yeah we'll we'll put like some a PDF together

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of resources and be able to share that with listeners yeah well well on behalf

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of us thank you marn appreciate the time appreciate the information and

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